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He thinks he wants a relationship with me again because he misses me.
She told him to read the book and that he should look at the part where the author describes the avoidant attachment style because that was her relationship style.
The anxious person can also overreact at times because he or she has a fear that the other person will leave or avoid him or her.
The avoidant person is afraid to get too close to his or her significant other. And when I was with the men that called me needy, I can now see that they had avoidant attachment styles. I have since read the book and found that the authors believe that the anxious or secure person often finds him or herself with an avoidant because the avoidant person makes it back into the dating pool more often.
I can only tell you that if you believe you have an anxious attachment style and you are dating someone that seems to have an avoidant attachment style, then trust your instincts.
If you think something seems off, then you are likely right. But it might never end up being the relationship you are hoping for.