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You were the desire of the single women wanting a clean start with an available guy without any so-called ‘baggage’…
a word that I cringe when people use, particularly when people consider children as such.
— As a dating coach for single women over 40, one of the first questions I ask a client is, “What’s your biggest problem in dating? I recently asked a group of about 300 single, divorced, and widowed women over 40 what their biggest problems were in dating. They want to be appreciated for more than their bodies.
” I want to know what they’ve tried and what their struggles are. I wanted to see how many struggled with the same issues. So guys, please pay attention to more than the boobs and the butt. Those things are far more important than a Harvard or Yale degree, or whether or not he speaks Mandarin.
Would you rather crash and burn or have a slow sizzle that bursts into hot flames over time? That’s why people drop billions of dollars a year on a quest for everlasting youth through makeup, beauty treatments, botox, and face lifts. The men I’ve spoken to care less about how much a woman weighs and more about how much a woman loves her body. So, if you’re a larger woman, take good care of your body and flaunt it, sista! I know many really smart people, including my son, who don’t have high degrees, and many people with a Ph. There are fewer dating issues when you can communicate your wants and needs clearly and have confidence and self-respect.
When you have a positive approach to dating, it’s just a matter of time before you find someone special to enhance your already happy life.
I’ve spoken to many men who haven’t been married but have been in long committed relationships with women over the years.
Men seem to get upset with me for doing this and I rarely get a second date. It’s nice that you offer but if a man says he’ll take care of it, let him.
Myself, I simply view baggage as ish you bring to the table from your past that doesn’t sit well with me.
So the 20’s and 30’s I felt like I was a great catch because that’s what was communicated to me by women, friends, and family.
So do be honest in portraying who you are by showing the whole you in your picture.
After all…you want a man who likes you just the way you are. Thanks, Dori, There are plenty of men and women over 50 who have gotten married a bit later in life.