Dating american ladies
Typical American dating rituals involves going to a bar, jumping through a few hoops so that you don’t buy her drink (i.e., I’ll buy the first round, if you buy the next), getting her drunk, then taking her home.
But the expectations are different in other parts of the world.
I simply smiled and said that I couldn’t believe a beautiful woman like herself was sitting all alone (she was truly stunning).
She smiled, and feeling flattered responded whether I start a conversation with every woman like that.
It’s hard to describe in words how pissed off I felt when the first thing someone tells you is not a simple “Hi” or “how are you?
This is has nothing to do with somehow pedestaling the girl, but more about being a bit more considerate to the weaker sex in non-feminized countries (which includes most of the world).” as if her state of femininity was somehow threatened by my “condescending” behavior.Being of Eastern European descent, I always felt it was important for men to be chivalrous to a certain extent.Of course, you must fine a fine line between being too stoic and too complimenting, and recalibrate that line for every woman you meet.Overtime my game has naturally adjusted more to the complimenting and sweet-talking side rather than my dick and combative side. Many years ago when I went on one of my first dates with an American girl (most of my conquests in US were South American and Eastern European), I behaved the same exact way as I used to with other girls: I opened doors, let her go in first, got the check — except this time my date couldn’t help by blabbing out, “are you going to keep doing this all night?